All righty-dighty then

So tell me, what’s new and exciting?

(sound of crickets)

Nothing, huh? Me neither.

So – some semi-bitter snark. Some of you may, or may not, remember me mentioning my niece – daughter of my elder male sibling (who I have had no contact with for, easily, 45 years now.)  Not going to go into the whole backstory but through the years she has said she wanted to establish regular contact and then backed off. Ok. I understand. Last year she contacted me via to let me know my mother died. She again voiced an interest in establishing contact – then backed off. Ok. I don’t understand. The woman is 46 years old – shit or get off the pot.

At any rate she writes on Medium and I read her stuff there, I don’t comment and I don’t ‘follow’ her. She fancies herself a writer and recently posted that she is pursuing a new career as a freelance writer/copy editor/editor.  I sure hope she doesn’t use any of her Medium articles as writing samples because they are rife with typos and grammatical errors. Glaring ones. Nope, not a good look for a prospective copy editor/editor.

*Snark over* *Feelings still hurt* *Sigh*

I mentioned in a comment to Melissa that when I was a little kid I wanted to be a duchess, not a princess or a queen but a duchess. She replied “Yes, I remember your duchess post” I swear that woman knows more of what I’ve written in the last 20 years than I do. I don’t remember writing about that.

Speaking of which – I posted a poem last year by Jeannette Encinias, “Beneath the Sweater and the Skin” . That poem just blew me away and I subscribed to her newsletter. Today in my email I received her latest newsletter with another fabulous poem – I’m going to share it here with you –

Don’t Abandon Yourself
by Jeannette Encinias

Not when you’re sick.
Not when you’re tired.
Not when you’ve lost
the thread
the thought
or the thing you thought
defined you.

You will die many times
in one life
and create yourself

This is natural.
This is a gift.
I’ve died a few times now
here in this world.
The person I was—

Throw that older skin into the water.
Give it to the sky.
Step into what wants to emerge now.
Nothing can hold you back
when you are willing
to be yourself.

~ ~ ~
Click on her name and it will bring you to her poetry page if you would like to read more.

16 thoughts on “All righty-dighty then

    1. When she was younger I understood what she considered divided loyalties but hell, she’s 46 now. When you read the other poem you will recognize it – I posted it on my blog and FB at the time.


  1. “I swear that woman knows more of what I’ve written in the last 20 years than I do. I don’t remember writing about that.” 😆😅🤣
    I have a memory like a steel trap. (Despite much youthful drug use!) I’m sort of a journalist where it concerns people. If I’ve taken an interest in someone in any way (including great writers!) I will zone in on interesting details and remember even the most minor details. Few things escape my notice, I’m mildly creepy like that 😊

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        1. Unwritten as in not lived yet ala Natasha Bedlngfield or just not shared in any format? Only the people who were there with me know, and they won’t talk and most are dead…

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  2. That is a lovely poem. Thank you for sharing. As for your niece… she has no idea what she is missing out on. She’s be lucky to know you on a more deeper level and realize what a gift to this world you are. Your insight, honesty, experiences and love are gifts I treasure and so should she. It’s a shame. and I’m sorry she has hurt your feelings.

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  3. I’m sorry your niece hurt your feelings by not following up on what she said she’d do. I don’t understand why she didn’t follow through but she has given up an amazing chance to get to know you again.

    I don’t know if it’s because I’m tired or if it’s hormones or what but that poem really got to me. It made my eyes leaky! I am going to save that and read it over and over again. Thank you for sharing.

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  4. Oh I do enjoy seeing someone who can’t put three sentences together in one paragraph say he or she is a “freelance writer/copy editor/editor.” It takes a kind of chutzpah I find fascinating. I never can figure if the person is clueless or conniving. Doesn’t matter it makes me smile.

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    1. I have to admit she is a good writer – she’s funny. I wish I could write ‘funny’ but I’m only funny if you can hear and see me – the words fall flat on the page. But damn, that woman needs a proofreader/copy editor herself – sometimes reading her stuff makes me cringe!

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